A woman is supposed to be by the side of her man as a companion not behind him as the concept connotes. Reason being that, she was created from the rib bone of a man, which as we all know, is one of the most important parts of a man's body.
Listen, apparently when a man is made the president of a country his First lady (his wife) stands by his side not behind him because his bodyguard(s) are being assigned and paid to do that for him, and for anyone holding that same position because It's part of the allegiance they pledged to their country before they got the job to guard their President.
Secondly, When a King sits on his throne his Queen (his woman) sits beside him not behind him, because he has palace guards to do that for him. And also, when a man is ordained a pastor or minister of a church, his wife sits beside him not behind him, you know why? because he needs her support physically, spiritually, emotionally, etc. To encourage him to be a better pastor. Whether you agree or disagree with me.
Let's also look at it this way, when a man takes his woman to the altar, does she stand beside him? Not at all, because she isn’t his best man she's his wife to be.
Finally, as a man, always remember that your woman is your First lady, your Queen, your Wife, your Heartbeat, the air you breathe, and in all your Rib. So, anytime you ever think of hurting her or breaking her heart, remember you are in turn hurting yourself.
I, therefore, stand to debunk the ideology postulated that “Behind every successful man there is a woman” rather “ BESIDE EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN IS A WOMAN.”